Since its founding in 2009, Hacienda has been at the forefront of New York’s sex-positive culture.
Through our signature play parties, intimate socials, and informative workshops, we’ve cultivated a vibrant community centered around exploration, consent, and connection.
Our sister venue, The House, extends our values beyond the playroom, offering a space to build relationships and socialize in a relaxed atmosphere.
Together, Hacienda and The House are shaping a new era of nightlife where pleasure, community, and respect intertwine.
Hacienda fosters a community built upon…
At Hacienda, we cultivate beautiful, indulgent spaces where we celebrate sexuality and encourage authentic, shame free self-expression.
Whatever your experience level, we have something for you. From workshops to play parties, from living spaces to social events. We invite you to join us on a journey of self-discovery and pleasure. Explore erotic play and connection in a sex-positive environment.
Hacienda is a consent opt-in space, where all touch is to be mutually desired and agreed upon, never presumed.
We encourage people to explore and expand their comfort zones. Alongside these gratifying experiences of pleasure and connection, comes risk, and we believe hedonism and responsibility can exist side by side.
Hacienda promotes communication and mutual respect within our spaces. We believe the entire community shares in the responsibility of creating safer spaces. We provide education about consent, negotiation, play party etiquette and much more through workshops and pre-party orientation talks.
Our Guardians are also an important pillar of our community. Guardians are trained volunteers who staff every play party to protect everyone’s comfort and safety. All attendees are encouraged to connect with a Guardian if you need anything at all.
Read more about our consent culture here:
If you have any issue to report, you can file an incident report here:
Our spaces exist to bring together like minded, sex positive people.
Meet new potential friends, lovers, and collaborators.
A Hacienda event can be a single night of meaningful interaction, the start of a beautiful new relationship, or a celebration of the pleasures of life with people you love. Our BIPOC and LGBTQ+ initiatives provide a sense of belonging and connection for and across our diverse sex positive communities.
Our leadership team has spent the last decade curating beautiful living environments for the kink-friendly, polyamorous community.
In fact, one of our primary missions is to create unique living spaces where people can learn, gather, and responsibly enjoy and explore their sexuality.
We frequently offer openings to rent rooms in our Hacienda villas, and welcome you to apply.
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