Come Home to Play

Welcome to Hacienda, where you can explore your sexuality, join our vibrant community, and catch the hottest sex parties in NYC.

Become a Member

Join Hacienda and step into a world of endless possibilities. Connect with those who share your passion for exploration and pleasure.

As a Hacienda Member, you’ll enjoy:

Community: Join a group of like-minded, sex-positive, and intentional people seeking unforgettable experiences.
Exclusive Events: Immerse yourself in the best sex parties in NYC, designed to ignite your senses and fuel your fantasies.
Bring your Friends: Bring along your trusted confidants to share in the excitement.
Access and Discounts: Unlock exclusive perks and discounts to our workshops and events.

Ready to rewrite the rules of pleasure?

Upcoming Events

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We are Hacienda.

Hacienda is a vibrant community where sexuality is celebrated, curiosity is ignited, and connections are forged.

We’re more than just the best sex parties in NYC; we’re a catalyst for exploration, education, and unforgettable experiences.

From electrifying play parties to enlightening workshops, every night at Hacienda offers something new and exciting.

Discover a world where pleasure, knowledge, and community converge. Create extraordinary memories, night after night.

Ridiculous commitment to making events perfect.

Hacienda throws the best parties. There is clearly a lot of time and effort that goes into planning, decorations, ice breakers, etc.

I love how open and approachable everyone is... even though I’m still pretty new, I feel comfortable talking with everyone as if I’ve known them for years.

I love how the Villa is set up. There are so many different and interesting areas, with a lot of thought put into every step.

It feels special to partake and enjoy this space.”

— “Lily”, member for 4 months

Friendly and sexy!

Everyone was so calm, friendly, and sexy! I had a great time & didn't feel anxious or pressured at all.”

"The community was awesome

The community was awesome. Very chill party and everyone was very respectful and non pushy.”

"I loved EVERYTHING

The vibe, the space, the energy, the old memories and the new ones being made. In short, I loved EVERYTHING.”

A Peek Inside

Hacienda leaders Beth & Kenneth get deep with Naked News